Elder Care Cost Guide

Paying for care

What does long-term care insurance actually cover?

Most long-term care insurance policies cover the same short list: nursing home care, home care, assisted living, adult day care, respite care and hospice. What releases the money is not the diagnosis but a benefit trigger, most often needing help with two of six daily activities for at least 90 days, or a cognitive impairment such as dementia. The policy pays up to a daily or monthly benefit limit you chose, so it covers part of a bill rather than all of it.

Data: CareScout Cost of Care Survey — 2025 national medians

Data: CareScout Cost of Care Survey — 2025 national medians — fieldwork July–November 2025.

The services a standard policy covers

The NAIC guide to long-term care insurance lists the services a policy may cover, and the list is longer than the name suggests. It includes nursing home care, home care, respite care, hospice care, personal care in your home, services in assisted living facilities, services in adult day care centers, and services in other community facilities.

Two details decide what you actually get. The first is whether home care is in the policy at all, because adding it raises the premium and not every policy includes it. The second is who is allowed to provide the care. Some policies require a licensed provider or agency, while others pay aides who are not licensed or not attached to an agency. A separate benefit for homemaker or chore services, which pays someone to cook and run errands, exists in some policies but not most of them.

The list does not include paying the family member who does the work. Most policies do not pay relatives who provide care, and the guide notes that the care they give may not even count toward your waiting period. A policy that pays a family caregiver exists, but it has to be written into the contract.

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The trigger, not the diagnosis

Every policy has a section called eligibility for benefits, and that section, not the medical diagnosis by itself, decides when the insurer starts paying. The industry calls these benefit triggers, and the guide outlines three of them.

The most common is the activities of daily living trigger: you are expected to be unable to perform two of the six activities without human assistance for at least 90 days. The six are bathing, continence, dressing, eating, toileting and transferring in and out of a bed or chair. The second is cognitive impairment, which is why dementia claims often rest on that trigger rather than on daily activities. The third is a doctor certifying that care is medically necessary, but tax-qualified policies are not allowed to use that trigger.

The wording inside the trigger matters more than it looks. A policy may require hands-on assistance, meaning someone must physically help you, or it may accept stand-by assistance, meaning someone only has to be nearby. Some insurers use a harder trigger for nursing home care than for home care. The clearer the policy describes its own requirement, the easier it is to know, before the claim, whether your situation qualifies.

Where the care happens

Coverage is tied to the kind of setting, not only to the kind of care. The guide is direct about the risk here: if you are not in the type of facility described in your policy, the insurance company can refuse to pay. Some policies pay in any state-licensed facility, others pay only in specific types such as a licensed nursing facility, and some list the places they will not cover. Homes for the aged, rest homes and personal care homes are called out as settings that long-term care policies often do not cover.

This is a moving target because assisted living is defined differently from state to state. If you plan to move or retire somewhere else, the guide recommends asking the insurer in advance whether the policy covers the services and facility types available there, and whether the facility has to hold a particular license or certification. Care received outside the United States is limited or excluded under many policies.

What policies usually exclude

The exclusions section is short and worth reading word for word, because the exceptions inside it decide more claims than people expect. Most long-term care insurance policies do not pay for a mental or nervous disorder or disease other than Alzheimer disease or other dementia, for alcohol or drug addiction, for an illness or injury caused by an act of war, for treatment in a government facility or treatment the government has already paid for, or for attempted suicide and intentionally self-inflicted injuries.

Read the first exclusion twice. A mental or nervous disorder is excluded, but Alzheimer disease and other dementia are carved out of that exclusion, which is the opposite of what many buyers assume. Dementia is one condition the standard policy is built to cover, while several other cognitive and psychiatric diagnoses fall on the excluded side of the same sentence.

How it fits a real care bill

A policy pays a benefit limit you selected, not the full price of care. On this site the 2025 national medians put private assisted living at about $6,200 a month and a semi-private nursing home room at about $9,581 a month, with home care at roughly $6,673 a month for 44 hours of help a week. A policy written for a daily or monthly benefit below those figures covers the gap it was sized for, not the whole bill.

Home care is often the place the numbers fall short. When a policy covers home care, the guide notes the benefit is usually a percentage of the nursing home benefit, commonly 50 percent or 75 percent, though more policies now pay the same amount for care at home as in a facility. Benefit period and benefit amount are usually set when the policy is issued, so choosing them against real local prices, before you need care, is the part that is hard to fix later.

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The waiting period before it pays

Benefits do not begin on the first day of care. The elimination period, sometimes called a deductible or waiting period, is the number of days you cover before the insurer pays. Common choices are 20, 30, 60, 90 or 100 days, and you pay for your own care during that window. A shorter waiting period lowers your out-of-pocket start but usually raises the premium.

Insurers count the wait in two different ways, and the difference can cost weeks. Under the calendar day method every day you meet the trigger counts, whether or not you received services. Under the service day method only the days you pay for covered professional care count, so using care three days a week stretches the same 90 day wait across months. The guide makes one practical point from this: get commercial services started as soon as care is needed, because under the second method the clock does not move while you wait.

Frequently asked questions

Does long-term care insurance cover assisted living?

It can, if the policy you bought lists assisted living facilities as a covered service. The National Association of Insurance Commissioners lists services in assisted living facilities as one of the services policies may cover, and it warns that many states, companies and policies define an assisted living facility differently. If your policy names the facility types it will pay for and the place you choose is not one of them, the insurer can refuse the claim, so read the facility list in your own policy before you sign a residency agreement.

What triggers long-term care insurance benefits?

The most common trigger is that you are expected to be unable to perform two of six activities of daily living without human assistance for at least 90 days. The six are bathing, continence, dressing, eating, toileting and transferring. A second common trigger is cognitive impairment, which matters most for Alzheimer disease and other forms of dementia. A third is a doctor certifying that care is medically necessary, though tax-qualified policies are not allowed to use that trigger.

Does long-term care insurance pay family members who provide care?

Usually no. The NAIC guide states that most policies do not pay benefits to family members who provide care, and that the care they give may not count toward your elimination period either. Some newer policies are written to pay a family caregiver, but that has to be in the contract, so check the exclusions and definitions section rather than assuming it.

Is Alzheimer disease or dementia covered?

Yes, and it is the one condition the standard exclusions carve out by name. Most policies exclude a mental or nervous disorder or disease other than Alzheimer disease or other dementia. That means dementia is normally covered while many other cognitive and psychiatric diagnoses are not. Cognitive impairment is also one of the benefit triggers, so a dementia diagnosis can open a claim on its own even when the person can still manage daily activities.

What does long-term care insurance not cover?

Most policies do not pay for a mental or nervous disorder other than Alzheimer disease or other dementia, for alcohol or drug addiction, for an illness or injury caused by an act of war, for treatment in a government facility or treatment the government already paid for, or for attempted suicide and intentionally self-inflicted injuries. Many policies also limit or exclude care received outside the United States.

How long before the policy starts paying?

It depends on the elimination period you chose when you bought it, which is the waiting period before benefits begin. Typical options are 20, 30, 60, 90 or 100 days, and you pay for your own care during that window before the insurer pays anything. Insurers count the days in one of two ways, either every calendar day you meet the trigger or only the days you pay for covered professional care, and the second method stretches the wait if you use care only a few days a week.

Where these rules come from

The coverage list, the exclusions, the benefit triggers and the elimination period rules on this page were read from the National Association of Insurance Commissioners guide, A Shopper Guide to Long-Term Care Insurance, published by the NAIC. Medicare long-term care rules were confirmed on Medicare.gov, including the point that Medicare does not cover custodial care when it is the only care needed and generally does not pay for long-term nursing home stays unless skilled nursing care is involved. Care costs are the 2025 national medians published by the cost survey named above. Every figure is attributed, and the exact terms that apply to you come from your own policy and your state insurance department. This is not legal, tax or insurance advice for an individual policy.

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